• Should I stay with my partner in our safe but loveless relationship? | Dear Mariella

    7 days ago - By The Guardian

    The fallout from an affair is still being felt and it's not healthy just to wait around anticipating being separated, says Mariella Frostrup. Is it time to move on? The dilemma I've been with my partner for 12 years; I'm 33 and he's 38. On the surface our relationship seems fine - we spend time together and don't argue - but I don't feel emotionally close to him. I think it's because of him having an affair five years ago - I have had to harden up so that I can cope on my own when he inevitably cheats again. We had counselling and I tried to move on, but I still find myself thinking about...
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