• My husband had an affair seven years ago. I don't trust him - and can't bring myself to have sex with him

    10 days ago - By The Guardian

    His betrayal rocked the family, but we got back together. Now our sex life is nonexistent, but we still love each other. What should I do? My husband had an affair about seven years ago, just after we got back together from a two-year separation. We have been married for nearly 25 years. The affair damaged me and our daughters, especially our oldest daughter. It took her a long time and therapy to trust him again. His initial reaction was emotionally brutal and self-righteous. After several months, he became ashamed of what he did and now finds it hard to discuss. I still harbour feelings...
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