• My new lover takes my breath away. However, I feel a sense of dread. How do I stop this?

    11 days ago - By The Guardian

    It is hard to loosen the tentacles that dread wraps around the mind, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith, the goal is to live on despite them I am a 50-year-old queer woman, embarking on a new relationship after leaving my previous partner of eight years. My new lover is beautiful, smart, insightful, passionate and she actually takes my breath away. We have been dating for about three months. I like what we have and I am extremely fond of her. However, I find myself catastrophising our relationship. I feel a sense of dread a lot of the time and suspect that there is a part of me...
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